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『My husband is S/W Engineer by profession, I love him for his steady nature and I love the warm feeling when I lean against his broad shoulders.
Two years of courtship and now, five years into marriage, I would have to admit, that I am getting tired of it.
I am a sentimental woman and extremely sensitive when it comes to a relationship and my feelings. My husband is my complete opposite; his lack of sensitivity, and the inability of bringing romantic moments into our marriage has disheartened me about LOVE.
One day, I finally decided to tell him my decision, that I wanted a divorce.
"Why? " he asked, shocked.
"I am tired. There are no reasons for everything in the world !" I answered.
He kept silent the whole night, seemingly in deep thought. My feeling of disappointment only increased. Here was a man who was not able to even express his predicament, so what else could I expect from him?
And finally he asked me: "What can I do to change your mind?"
Looking deep into his eyes I slowly answered: "Here is the question.
Let's say, I want a flower located on the face of a mountain cliff, and we both are sure that picking the flower will cause your death. Will you do it for me?"
He said: " I will give you your answer tomorrow...." My hopes just sank by listening to his response.
I woke up the next morning to find him gone, and saw a piece of paper with his scratchy handwriting that goes....
My dear, "I would not pick that flower for you, but....please allow me to explain the reasons further.....
This first line was already breaking my heart. I continued reading.
"When you use the computer you always mess up the Software programs, and you cry in front of the screen. I have to save my fingers so that I can help to restore the programs.
You always leave the house keys behind, thus I have to save my legs to rush home to open the door for you.
You love traveling but always lose your way in a new city. I have to save my eyes to show you the way.
You always have the cramps whenever your "good friend" approaches every month. I have to save my palms so that I can calm the cramps in your tummy.
You like to stay indoors, and I worry that you will be infected by infantile autism. I have to save my mouth to tell you jokes and stories to cure your boredom.
You always stare at the computer, and that will do nothing good for your eyes. I have to save my eyes so that when we grow old, I can help to clip your nails and help to remove those annoying white hairs. So I can also hold your hand while strolling down the beach, as you enjoy the sunshine and the beautiful sand...
Thus, my dear, unless I am sure that there is someone who loves you more than I do... I could not pick that flower yet, and die ... "
My tears fell on the letter, and blurred the ink of his handwriting...
That's LIFE, and LOVE. When one is surrounded by love, the feeling of excitement fades away, and one tends to ignore the true love that lies in between the peace and dullness.
Love shows up in all forms; even in very small and cheeky forms. It has never been a model. It could be the dullest and most boring form ...
Flowers, and romantic moments are only used and appear on the surface of the relationship. Under all this, the pillar of true love stands... AND THAT'S LIFE
People often goes for romantic gestures, surprises and sweet words whispered into their ears. We fall in love and feel loved because of these so called romantic moments.
But the truth is romantic moments cannot show how much a person loves you. They merely create the feeling of being loved..... 』
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我的丈夫的職業是工程師, 我愛他因為他的性格讓我覺得很穩很有安全感…我也很愛靠在他寬大的肩膀上的感覺…延續了兩年的追求期到現在,我們結婚了五年, 我必須承認, 我已經開始厭倦這段感情了…
我是一個把感情看得很重的女人…也會對每一段感情還有我的感覺表現得很敏感..而我的丈夫卻完全的和我相反; 他的不夠敏感, 還有不懂浪漫讓我對”愛情”感到氣餒了.
有一天, 我終于忍不住跟他說了我的決定, 就是我要離婚.
“為什么?”他吃驚的問我.
“我很累了…這個世界上不是每樣東西都有它的原因的!” 我回答他…
他一整晚保持沉默, 好像在沉思什么似的…也讓我更加失望了…這個男人連表達難處都做不到, 我對他還要有什么期望啊?
最后他終于問我: “我可以怎么做才能讓你改變主意?”
我深深的看著他的眼睛然后慢慢的回答他: “好我問你…假如, 我要那個在山上懸崖壁上的一朵花, 可是我們都知道為了摘下那朵花你就會沒命….那你會為了我去做嗎?”
他說: “我明天會給你一個答覆….” 聽到他的回應我更絕望了.
第二天早上當我醒來的時候他不見了, 只看到一張紙…紙上寫著他潦草的字….
親愛的, “我不會去摘那朵花給你, 可是….請容許我對你解釋我不能的原因……
看了第一行我已經心碎了…我繼續看…
“每當你用電腦的時候…你總是會搞亂那些電腦軟件, 然後就會在電腦螢幕前哭…我必須把我的手指留下來…才能幫你重新安裝好那些軟件…
你時常忘了帶鑰匙, 所以我要把我的腳留下來才能趕回家幫你開門…
你喜歡旅行可是卻時常在新的城市裡迷路…我必須把我的眼睛留下來才能幫你帶路..
每當你的”好朋友”每個月來的時候你都會抽筋…我必須把我的手掌留下來才能緩和你的疼痛…
你喜歡待在屋子里, 我很擔心你會因此患上自閉症…所以我必須把我的嘴巴留下來才能講笑話和講故事給你聽來讓你解悶…
你時常對著電腦, 對你的眼睛很不好..我必須把我的眼睛留下來然後當我們都老了…才能幫你修剪你的指甲和幫你拔掉那些討人厭的白頭發…才能牽著你的手在沙灘上漫步, 因為你喜歡陽光和美麗的沙….
所以, 我最親愛的寶貝, 除非我能確定有一個比我更愛你的人…要不然我還不能為了你摘那朵花, 和死….”
我的眼淚滴在信上面, 把他的字的印墨都弄模糊了…
那就是人生, 那就是愛情. 當一個人被愛環繞著, 而那興奮的感覺逐漸消失的時候, 那個人可能就會看不到那個待在平靜和遲鈍之間的真愛….
愛可以用很多種方式來表達; 甚至于是很小或是很厚臉皮的方式去表達它都可以. 它不是一個模架的…它可能只是一個平淡無奇和最枯燥無味的…
花朵, 和浪漫的時刻都只會在一段感情的表面上才看得到和用得到…在這些底下, 一段真愛的支柱…就是真實的生活
人們常會去在意那些浪漫的表示, 驚喜 或是耳邊的甜言蜜語….往往因為這些所謂的 “浪漫”就說愛到了…
可是事實上”浪漫”不能顯示一個人有多愛你…..它只是在製造一種在戀愛的感覺…
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我一直喜欢下午的阳光
它让我相信这个世界任何事情都会有转机
相信命运的宽厚和美好
我们终归要长大,带着一种无怨的心情悄悄地长大。
归根到底,成长是一种幸福.....
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